We have been so fortunate to build a community of love, connection, and gratitude and some people can't appreciate that so much respect abounds. Anyone with any meaningful affiliation to the challenge group would know how empathetic and kind we are. I can't believe they saw aggression as their only way to satisfy her needs. And based on her comment asking you to email her, she still doesn't get it and probably never will. The issue is over and solved, so why continue a discussion on how to fix a problem that no longer exists?
I hope your heart fills back up with the love we all have for you and pushes the hurtful nonsense out until it's dust in the wind.