If someone called me fat, I'd be offended but that's on me because I believe we take simple words and project feelings on to them and then insist society agree. I fit the description of fat; in fact, I think I'm more obese. People need to start being accountable for how they react to words and stop making everyone change to suit their narrative. Okay, Roz. My rant's over. Thanks for asking. Did I help or confuse things more?